Know yourself
认识你自己
This step is very important if you really want to choose the right partner. You have to know yourself. Some people are searching in all corners of the earth for their soulmate but come back in vain. One of the reasons of that failure is that the bachelor did not ask himself. So the, before loving someone, before making your choice on the right guy or girl to marry, start by asking yourself the real questions: who are you? What do you want? What are you expecting from your partner? What do you like most? All these little questions may seem tiny but are very important. It is after answering these questions to yourself that you can start defining who you are and what you really want.
如果你想选择一位合适的伴侣,认识你自己这一步相当重要。你必须认识自己。一些人翻遍地球寻找自己的灵魂伴侣,但徒手而归。失败的一个原因便是单身人士没有反求诸己。因此,在与某人陷入爱河之前,在你选择合适的人结婚之前,先要问自己最真实的几个问题:你是谁?你想要什么?你对伴侣的期待是什么?你最喜欢什么?所有这些问题似乎微小,但却重要。只有在回答了这些问题后你才能开始定义自己的身份和欲求。
adj. 迷人的,吸引人的;诱惑的,诱人的